Lots of winner out there are probably going to scream out loud when they read the title of this post.
I can guess (probably again) that most of them will ask me this question,
"Do you know how much hard work that I have to put to be able to win the competition?"
I do, I do...
My post here is not going to judge anybody whether the person is the winner or the loser.
I have been both and I think most of people also must have been both as well.
From my point of view,
To be able to be a winner is not easy (because of the hard work the person has to do)
But once the competition ends, being the loser is the hardest part.
in a competition,
During the process--- to become a winner at the end is not an easy task.
At the end of the process --- to accept the fact that someone is better than you(winner) is the hardest thing to do.
After the competition, it could be hard for both of them (the winner and also the loser)
The winner tends to be scared of getting lose in another competition and on the other hand the loser mostly scared to lose again.
In extreme case, the loser doesn't have any confident to join any other competition.
This is the reason why I stated earlier that being a winner is easier than being a loser.
Because a loser's confidence tends to get damaged as the effect of losing.
Lots of motivator declared how a person should always see the failure as the experience and learning point. I do agree to that statement but most of people forget that the loser also needs time to heal.
'Pride" &
amp; "Jealousy" are the natural things coming afterward.
No body want to be the loser.
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